Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Kewpie Doll

I read Shirin's blog this morning and saw a comment by Cyrus' Khaleh Tita demanding more videos. It takes quite a bit of time for YouTube to upload these videos. It also takes me quite a bit of time to go through the photographs. So meanwhile, my impatient chickadee, I would like to elaborate on my comment on Shirin's blog regarding the appearance of Cyrus being similar to a Kewpie doll.


The Kewpie doll, in my vocabulary since childhood, was not something I was actually very familiar with. I went to the wiki link for Kewpie doll to refresh my knowledge and you'll see it's actually been around a very long time. I would have to agree with Jackie, my coworker, who said Cyrus looks like a Kewpie doll:




And Tita, I'll have the videos up as soon as possible.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

A Few Pics From Saturday

I took about 5 zillion pictures this weekend; it'll take me days to go through them all. I'll put a few up each day I guess.

Contrary to what Anahita thought (that we bought this swing for Cha Cha) we bought this swing for Cyrus. Apparently some babies don't like to swing, but I haven't met one yet.

Calvin checks it out from a safe distance.

Shirin was hoping to get some reading done this weekend. Unfortunately she read very little because either Cyrus needed her or her first son (Obi) sprawled out right on top of her book.

He sure does look comfortable!

Don't let his calm pose fool you though... he actually has his nose trained on Shirin's egg sandwich.

Meanwhile, even the cutest baby has fussy moments. Here Mr. Fussypants is being calmed by his Baba-joon.

Oooooh.... what is that?

He's not sure what it is but it's definitely interesting.

Even more interesting was Chappu. Cyrus LOVES Chappu.

Chappu seemed pretty interested in him too.

Chappu's body language reflects wary caution, but Cyrus' loves her nonetheless.

The two even have shared interests: dangling toys are favorites of both.

Well, let me rephrase that. Chappu loves dangling toys. Cyrus LOVES Chappu!

Stay tuned. More pictures to come.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

For Khaleh Tita

For Cyrus' Khaleh Tita, far, far away, who desperately requested some videos of her nephew, here are a few videos per her request. Photos to be put up later.


And I wasn't going to include this one (Cyrus doesn't know he's supposed to hold it in if he's on camera) but Chappu was too cute. Later I'll post pictures where you can see that Cyrus and Chappu are best friends.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

New Furniture

Now that the kids are grown and gone Saeed and I can start spending money on ourselves and improve our home. Just look at the new fancy furniture we bought this week! Now we just need someone to come visit who actually fits in it. Interestingly, none of the kitties have tried it out. I guess the fact that it swings may be a deterrent.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Mother Nature Is Being A Good Girl

After all the posts last summer about the drought I just want to say "Thank You" to Mother Nature for being more generous to us this summer. We are back to our normal summer activity of trying to keep the plants from overtaking us so we don't look like Sleeping Beauty's castle after her 100-year sleep. The weather has been warm and the rainfall has been moderate. So, being overrun by plants is our normal M.O. and it feels good.

Our castle steps

Friday, July 11, 2008

Three Cups Of Tea

I just finished "Three Cups Of Tea" by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin. It tells the amazing story of an American man (Mortenson) who took initiative despite enormous obstacles to improve the lives of countless others. In 1993 while trying to summit the K2 mountain peak in Pakistan, mountaineer Mortenson drifted into an impoverished village where he was taken in by the inhabitants and nursed back to health. Moved by the villagers' kindness he promised to return and build a school, but over the next decade he built not just one but 55 schools - especially for girls - in the forbidding terrain that gave birth to the Taliban. Not only is this story at times a white-knuckle adventure (his life was threatened more than once and he was kidnapped at one point) but it is a testament to the power of the humanitarian spirit. Mortenson had to overcome physical, cultural, language, religious and financial obstacles that would have made most people throw up their hands and give up.

Many things motivated Mortenson to do this work and initially the primary objective was simply to repay a debt. But as time went by it became clear to him that one of the secondary benefits to building schools was the reduction of religious fundamentalism in the areas where the children were given a secular (non-madrassa) education. He had personal conversations with men in the Taliban who said they joined the Taliban as a means of earning a living. Many of these men grew up in villages with no schools. Without education they had limited means by which to support their families and the Taliban paid them for their "work."

As I said at the beginning Mortenson particularly wanted to provide education for girls; this has already had tangible results. One of the girls who attended Mortenson's first school went on to higher education in maternal and infant health. In the valley where she has instituted a maternal/infant health program the death rate (at the time he finished his book) has gone from staggering to zero.

Greg Mortenson now runs the Central Asia Institute (http://www.ikat.org/) which is continuing the work he began by himself 15 years ago. He spends many months of each year away from his family and this summer he's in Pakistan and Afghanistan doing more of the same. If you want to order his book he requests that you order it off Amazon by going to his site first - this way 7% of the proceeds will go to his organization. The word "hero" is used easily and often in our country, but from my perspective these people frequently don't qualify for that accolade. Greg Mortenson? Now there's a real hero.

Now - the significance of the title. When Mortenson lived in Korphe, the village into which he stumbled that first day, he met and was brought under the wing of the tribal chief, Haji Ali. Haji Ali ends up becoming a father figure for Mortenson and advises him to slow down if he wants to achieve his goals. Americans want to just go in and make things happen, but Haji Ali tells him he'll accomplish more by doing things their way. "Here (in Pakistan and Afghanistan), we drink three cups of tea to do business; the first you are a stranger, the second you become a friend, and the third, you join our family, and for our family we are prepared to do anything - even die."


Here are some pictures of his "kids" and the schools he's responsible for getting built.
All images courtesy of Greg Mortenson, Central Asia Institute





















‘Three Cups of Tea is one of the most remarkable adventure stories of our time. Greg Mortenson’s dangerous and difficult quest to build schools in the wildest parts of Pakistan and Afghanistan is not only a thrilling read, it’s proof that one ordinary person, with the right combination of character and determination, really can change the world.’ -Tom Brokaw

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Attack Of The Neighborhood Artists

You should never turn your back on this dangerous world or someone or something will attack. In our case I believe it might have been some bored teenagers with not enough to do during the summer months off school. They must have been girls. The T.P. job is tasteful and mild and has the feminine touch. Unfortunately, we have since had a thunderstorm and now it just looks like the toilet overflowed under our willow tree. I'm sure someone could argue that's art too. :-(

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Don't Shoot The Messenger

I absolutely love this cartoon. It's not very funny but it reflects something I've experienced personally. First read:
About me: I've chosen the vegetarian lifestyle for the sake of reducing, even a little bit, animal suffering. I know my little bit isn't much, but I sleep better at night because of it. Personally, I feel that you're a hypocrite if you say you love animals but eat them. Even though I feel strongly about it I NEVER push my views on others. If they ask me why I don't eat meat I tell them, but I never bring it up and never tell them they shouldn't eat meat. I realize most people don't really care and although I may secretly wish everyone on the planet felt similarly about compassion towards animals, I accept that they don't. We're all at different points on the continuum of ethical decisions by which we live our lives.

OK, now about the cartoon. Interestingly, on more than one occasion people have verbally attacked me for not eating meat. These are not people I approached or spoke to first, but people who became aware (at the table) that I am a vegetarian. They never even asked me why I've chosen to be a vegetarian.

What's that all about?

Perhaps they had a bad experience with an aggressive animal rights advocate or perhaps they have a guilty conscience? Who knows, but that cartoon really struck home. People don't want to be told that they're causing pain and suffering. Instead of getting upset about the initial pain and suffering (which she is causing), the lady in the cartoon gets mad at the source of information that's pointing it out. That's like getting mad at the weatherman who's giving you the weather report.

You may say that PeTA is too aggressive about their "weather reports", but if you don't report on issues of injustice in a bodacious fashion people do not listen. Elie Wiesel said: "Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented."

So, don't shoot the messenger.

(P.S. I support Amnesty International too.)

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Chappu Eats With Style

I have been trying for years to catch Chappu in the act of eating with her "hands". Normally, she eats like anyone else: standing in front of a bowl with her head down, grabbing her food with her mouth. Every once in awhile, however, she prefers to eat by grasping the food in her paw and bringing it up to her mouth like you and I. Often, this is performed in the reclining position. Also, if she can do it after interupting someone else's meal it tastes even better!

The first three pictures are from a couple of years ago and not in good focus, but they are the first "evidence" of my Jane Goodall-like observations. First the reclining stare... (poor Calvin's trying to eat.)

... then in for the first grab...
.... crunch, crunch, crunch - delicious!

This was just a couple of weeks ago. This time her victim is Frosty. First the reclining stare... (I distracted her with the camera)...

... then the lunge...

... then Frosty's "What the @*&$%?"...

.... ahhh... the bowl to herself.

Crunch, crunch, crunch, crunch...

... swipe number two, and so on.

She can even do it standing up:

That at the end there, the walking stripes, was Tippy. Filming animals is always a challange!

Monday, June 30, 2008

Mental Magma


I'd like to pass the word about a great new website where you can participate in interesting and creative contests. And YES there are prizes! The site is called Mental Magma and there will be a new contest every Monday. Although the MM staff will pick the best five answers, we, the cyber participants, get to pick the final winner. Should be fun!